“What did you see in him that no one else saw?” WSOC-TV's sports anchor Phil Orban asked her.
“That he just wanted to be loved. That he just wanted what everyone else has. That he just wanted stability. He wanted a family. He wanted the opportunity to have three meals a day and just to be like everyone else,” she said.
Touhy and her husband Sean remain champions of adoption starting the Making it Happen foundation, a nonprofit dedicated to improving the quality of life of children who are invisible to most -- those in foster care in need of adoption.
“You can do something to change a kid’s life. It's just ridiculous that these kids go through life and that they're unloved and that society deems them worthless because that's just the furthest thing from the truth when given an opportunity,” Touhy said.
Even now, seven years later, the Touhys receive messages constantly, letters, emails, Twitter messages from people that connect personally with the movie.
“Whether it’s from a kid that’s been adopted that validates where he is in his life or its the kid that ages out of foster care that says, ‘No one wants me. I'm not worthy. I'm not valuable. No one loves me.’ That always makes me cry that they are valuable and that someone needs to step up for these kids. All they need is an opportunity and you can change their lives," Touhy said getting choked up.
And that's all she said she gave to Oher, love and an opportunity.
“We just allowed Michael to become the person he was supposed to be and the truth of the matter is there are Michael Ohers everywhere and they just need a chance,” she said.
And Oher needed another chance this offseason after signing a free agent deal with Tennessee. He battled injuries last year and was released by the Titans labeled a bust.
Not 12 months later he's the anchor of the NFC champion Panthers offensive line protecting Cam Newton’s blindside.
“The fact that he was labeled like he was last year just goes to show you don't ever give up on someone. Don’t ever think that you know they're finished and down and out and that they're done and it’s the end of the story because that’s not always the case. Just pull yourself up do the very best you can do be the best person you can be and look, look what happens,” Touhy said.
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